I guess I would agree with most of the points you origionally made Peregrinus. I would add that for the most part, the mistakes are pretty obivous now. It's not like we don't know what they are - heck, we lived them!
I guess I have to pick the same nit everyone else is picking. It's easy to get in touch - the preferred method (for me at least) is PM. Some DMs (like Jeh) actually post their ICQ numbers right there in their profile (Madness! madness, I say!) Also you posted this message here and got a several DM responses in like, a few hours. Here you are, having a dialog with DMs about how hard it is to have a dialog with DMs.... heh. It's pretty easy!
Of course, nobody knows what the DM forums might look like. But it probably looks something like this....
Behind the screen
I want the DM forums closed because I was asked to give honest opinions on things and people. I gave them in total confidence that they would not leave. I expect that confidence to be maintained. Further, if it was broken, I would never again be able to be honest in that forum - because always I would wonder if it might be opened some time down the line.
Amen on the whole Cirran issue. I hated it and I know I wasn't alone. It caused a lot of tension on the players and that tension spilled over into the DM forum. But he was very resolved to do it that way. I figured, well, what the heck, the guy has talant. Maybe he will find a way to make it work. I don't want to be telling creative types the terms under which they can sing and dance - even when it does go against my better judgement. Well, you can't ever say we aren't open to experiments.
One of the things I regret is how I let that come between us, but I guess we shared blame. Such a central part of his time with us, and it overshadowed everything else he did. It's a real shame he will probably be more remembered for that than some of the amazing quests he ran.
However, I did learn a little from it. When we had another super talented DM come on board, they wanted to do the same thing. Having learned just how bad it can go, I was a little more resolute myself this time. Unfortunately that really pissed the new DM off. They eventually quit and I probably have some responsibility the loss of a potentially great member. So, maybe I didn't learn as much as I think I did. In the end, I guess it's hard to say which is better.
I'm not really against talking about how we can improve. Maybe it'll scare new guys off? I dunno. But personally I like it when the DMs don't have a god complex and ruthlessly crush all dissent. How they deal with criticism is what is important to me. And I like it when people read and understand what other people are trying to say. So, I'm cool with it.
The whole horsemen saga had a lot of stuff going on behind the scenes. Actually we sometimes laugh about it now. Probably the thing that stands out most in my mind is how OOC it eventually became. I don't know why it all came to a head for that event, but I suspect it was mostly timing. Some things had been brewing for a while and thats just the story that was going on when it happened. I'm pretty sure it's safe to say that we all learned a lot from it. DMCL will be the 1st to tell you that :) He's a better DM for it too.
If I were going to criticise myself... Hm....
- Keep the events shorter. I always seem to run long.
- Remember to give out at least as much loot (potions) as people use up. I do tend to drain the coffers a bit more than I intend.
- Provide better closure at the end
- Work on my imprompty dialog (Wyv and Jeh know what I mean - hehehe)
That's all I have to say about that.